Caution: 3 Guys you should Steer clear from Ladies


I wondered why men are always so blinded and bored by the hidden talents of their wives but so eager to lust and fantasize over the first strange woman that might crossed path with his eyes.  Is it really that important to keep up with the score rather than a clear path to a more fulfilling ‘life?’  Now in terms of dollars and cents, would you rather liquidate all your assets and check and bet it all only to have a losing hand in a poker game?  Men think logically and is always eager to argue what makes sense or not  but I guess when it comes to dealing with women, the only brain that works is the one that immaculately lies in the head between their legs.

On the other hand, all women dream to someday find their dream guy who will sweep her off her feet.  I believe that we are fully aware that Disney have exerted enough brainwashing over us but we have the will power and enough common sense to know that life and relationships are no fairy-tale with happy endings and without hard work.  When it comes to finding a decent guy its like setting up yourself to be an easy catch among a pack of wolves.  Either you gonna prepare yourself for the most warranted escape or you will fall prey and be eaten, no pun intended.  Whatever you decide just bear in mind a few things; you must be prepared to meander your way through these guys:



Guy # 1  The Serial Cheater (overlapper)-as the term suggests, this guy is a Con artist, Swindler and Double-crosser in all his relationships (work, business or play).  He's not your typical cheater because instead of just stepping out of his existing relationship; he has many flings simultaneously in different stages (beginning or ending) of the dating game thus the coined term "overlapper."  
There's no ending before a fresh start so each female think that they are the one without realizing his grand scheme.  He will defraud you of all your emotional and financial well-being.  He embezzles women literally; stealing her heart and misusing her kindheartedness in every way, shape or form without remorse.  This guy is pretty much inhumane and he doesn’t know the when/how/where..…but he certainly knows why because his whole demeanor is set on deception and betrayal.  
He is that same guy that is so irresistible, flawless in appearance, charming, loving, kind; displaying all the great qualities you seek in a man but like everything in this life, there is a CATCH.  Unfortunately, he isn’t the catch, you are.  Sadly, all women will learn life’s lesson on betrayal, disappointment and heartbreak in intricate detail, thanks to this chauvinistic Charmer.


Guy # 2  Mr Unavailable (married)-Marriage is a lifetime commitment but happiness is not quite engraved in stone. Just like any other relationships, it goes through motions and ups & downs; there is also turbulence at times that will shake things up a bit and lead to temporal fling for mere convenience.  How ironic that this guy can commit to his wife but seek outside attention which questions his fidelity.  Yeah, yeah you met him a year ago, and he was so unhappily married that his divorce was in process but I guarantee five years later he will be singing same tune about leaving his wife.  It seems like it’s a never ending ordeal while you are getting quite impatient in having him all to yourself.  Despite his shortcomings, he will not leave his home under any circumstances unless it’s for  late night run or quick booty-call.

Guy # 3  The Boyfriend-most men enjoy their freedom too much to allow any woman to compromise it, therefore, he serves the ‘boyfriend’ card as a temporal commitment but who is he trying to fool?  Women seek commitment that is based on forever; she wanna ring on it but for the love of life this guy will be there but there’s no wedding in his future.  The Boyfriend can be somewhat of a neutral bearing because he is not as extreme as the first two.  He is really scared of commitment and that doesn’t make him a bad guy.  He can be influenced by change and growth thus transforming into ‘The Guy’ or ‘The One,’ eventually.  There's hope with him but there's not much guarantee unless you play your hand right.




I did mention 3 guys because what you really need is this guy right ere:
The Good Guy- he is like a gem; very precious and rare.  I saved the best for last because this guy is indeed the epitome of the best thing that can ever happen to anyone or you've ever had.  Sometimes he’s right in front of your eyes and you’ll spend your whole lifetime recuperating from so many heartbreaks without even noticing him.  They say that the “Good guy finishes last” but I revere that saying because if it wasn’t for this guy, many women would be lost forever.  So many women had to go astray to be taken back to the fold.  He’s the keeper and the fairy-tale Prince Charming….well at least without the crown….but if there was one; he surely deserves it.

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