The Men in your life will fight for you
The men of your household are the power brokers in your social life and they bring the balance of power in your relationship with an outside man coming to your life. Speak well and honorably of them before him. Your money, beauty, social status will never create the balance of power nor be the power broker in your relationship with a man.
But the men in your family by the honor of your having them in your life will, just by them being there. If your relationship leads to marriage, one of them should be handing you over to him. And you have no business marrying a man who don't know what to do about the men in your family, nor see them as problems. Because, That's a bad sign.
Real men always find a way to get alone for the sake of the princess! At an early time, if not always, a man in your life needs to know he is answerable to someone for you...
Don't take this for granted!
A woman needs a man to answer for her in the gates. As a man is meant to be a cover, courage and comfort to them within home and society. If you lack men in your immediate family, get a nearest kinsman that responsible in his own life and honor him, and indirectly come under his covering which will play out in needed time. The bible also talks of bad relatives who should not be considered as kinsmen in the day of trouble, but recomment your own friend and father's friends as kinsmen in their place, Pro. 27:10, "Thine own friend, and thy father's friend, forsake not; neither go into thy brother's house in the day of thy calamity: for better is a neighbour that is near (near at heart and feels your pains) than a brother (whose heart is) far off."
Its an error for a woman to face life with her power, fighting for her own honor when men are available. A woman is created as a princess of inspiration, and God or a male figure is her strength and might! Her husband become the last one in this equation to take over from kinsmen, while she will still have them.
The bible teaches that God has put or made primary power, protection and privision to comes from immediate family and near kinsmen even before the church, so that the church can do its primary assignment of preaching the gospel and then helping the completely helpless.
1 Tim. 5:16, "If any believing man or[a] woman has widows, let them relieve [aid, stand by and be a strength to] them, and do not let the church be burdened, that it may relieve (or help) those who are really widows [that have none to help them]." God covering, protection and provision makes your life naturally possible. Don't despise those God has put in your life by way of relatives and kinsmen. Your spirituality is reflected in all godliness and humility; not because you look unto men. Be humble to resolve conflicts so that the blessing of God can manifest and remain with you and your house naturally. For in its peace, you shall enjoy peace (Jer. 29:7)! Heb. 12:14, "Follow peace with all men, and holiness, without which no man shall see the Lord: "
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