Craziest things Men say to sleep with women Diaries:

"I want you to have my baby"

If a married man said to you that he wants you to have his baby, ask him, how much will you pay for surrogacy?  For all the females who don’t realize the consequences of having a baby in an adulterous affair, please understand this, you will become an official “homewrecker.”  In addition, remember this as well, “you can’t break up a happy home, bringing misery to others and expect your life to be filled with joy.” 

"I wanna Marry you"

I am sure everyone is fully aware that a married person who marries without an annulment or divorce has committed bigamy, therefore, the second nuptial is not legal.  I’m just curious to know, who is anxious to marry a married man?  Why do women even solicit and encourage such utterances of rubbish?

Dinner at your place? 

Well first things first, its dinner at your place since you can’t get in his place.  He will also refrain from being seen in public with you with fear of ruining his chances of keeping his affair a secret.  Furthermore, married men can be rapists too so why would you invite a strange married man into your home?  Words of wisdom, its harder to prove an act of rape when it’s done in your home due to matters of consent so always use caution.

"I want to get to know you better."

 People get married for the obvious reasons of commitment, loyalty and trust.  I’m not saying that married people can’t have friends neither am I advocating friendship outside the marriage, especially if it’s a one-sided friendship.  Now, the proper way to develop friendships is under mutual circumstances.  Therefore, if a married man’s wish is to get to know you better, ask him this: "when will I get to meet your wife?"

                                      DON'T TRY TO BE THAT GIRL!!!!!!!!!

 

"My woman makes me unhappy."

Chances are if his woman doesn’t make him happy he aint doing a pretty good job in making her happy either.  Have you heard of the saying, "a happy wife makes a happy life?"  Whatever a person invest in a relationship, that he will receive in return. 

Why would you think for a split second that a man’s happiness is with you?  The closest he can get to happiness in a woman is quenching his burning desires with what's between her legs. 
Therefore, when a man approaches you expressing his unhappiness with his woman that he lives with, he's directly begging you some time with your oh-so-goodness lady part.
Don’t forget that true happiness lies within an individual's frame of mind, not in their power to procreate and it cannot be sought in anything or anyone. Besides, why would you want to be with an unhappy guy anyway?  If he's unhappy, he's living a miserable life and the next best thing is to fix his problems (his life) first before approaching you.
Well,  on the other hand, if you think you are the source of happiness and can make a man happy then by all means but understand that he is bringing his happy ass home to those whom he love and truly care about the most, each and every night.
Please make this a lil note to yourself and remind others if you may:

“We’re not together; I’m just living with my wife/girlfriend because I want to be around my children.”

I’m just curious to know which man leaves and besides his belongings, takes his children too.  Or better yet, how many men will give the woman the option to leave but not with the kids?  Point is there are but a few men who are willing to give up their freedom to anyone, including their children. A man’s freedom is most revered to him that he is almost selfish to let it all go in the name of love or fatherhood.

A man choose to live with whomever he wishes; whenever he makes the decision to leave, nothing and no one can stop him.  Therefore, when a man chooses to live with his family, he also made a conscious effort in being there too. 

I know they always say, “It’s cheaper to keep her (wife)” but seriously if a man wants to be around his kids that badly, he would be busy working on his marriage/relationship not straying all over the place looking for women like you.  Besides, if he's only concerned about his wife's costly demands, how will he fit into your life, financially?

Whatever it is that a man might say to justify him living with his family and not by himself, this is a clear indication that he will not live with you.  Not only is he showing you he where his heart belongs but he is also displaying his unstable frame of mind.  Ladies, take your blinders off and start using your peripheral view because you definitely don’t want to end up in his wife’s/girlfriend’s shoes. It is very likely that the same thing he does to get with you, he will probably do the same with someone else, once he has you.  To be continued..........................follow me weekly to get more quotes decoded