Woman 2 Woman

A letter to the other woman.

DEAR T.O.W.,

Let me first ‘reintroduce’ myself and then I’ll express my gratitude for the many things that you have helped me learned about being a woman, wife, and who I should trust with my heart.  I know it’s probably not your fault but you sure are responsible because you have made a conscious effort to lie, steal and destroy a family that you barely know.  It only seemed fair that I also help you realize that you will only be an extension to my family even with a child and all.  This is by no means an expression of fury or rage but woman to woman I am the first Lady and will always be; even if I’m dead and gone no one can ever take my place.

You already know enough so no need to go into any great details about my life, marriage or my kids.  Yeah, you probably have seen my children and of course you have been the most caring chaperone but what really stand out about you is your eagerness in not only auditioning for my role but actually playing the part as well.  Since you have decided to take a piece of me you might as well understand my whole being.  You see being a mother and a wife doesn’t define who I am so let me oblige you a free pass into my world. 

I am a passionate woman who fights long and hard for all that I believe in; love and my family is no exception.  I play hardball very well because I realize that I don’t need a pair of balls to join the team, all I need is my vagina.  I make love to life and all my being; I don’t just save myself for an easy catch by a man through desperation. I hope you don’t take this literally but if you do try to find a deeper meaning in everything I state, and grasp all you can while we are at it.  No need to make mention of any accolades either because my success and praise comes from doing what I enjoy, which is helping others, being with the ones I love, having great friendships, a clean bill of health and embracing life.

In addition, I have been able to grow a thick, leathery skin that is not only a protective layer from the harsh external conditions in life but it also acts as a barrier from the venomous strikes and blows from people like you.  So far I think you have gotten the picture of what a woman like myself is made of which is also some of the true fundamentals that a man looks for in a wife. I am far from displaying resentment towards you because having strong faith, giving God his rightful place in my life, practicing diligence, patience and tact have outweighed all the evil you have brought upon my home, family, and my innocent children.

I hope you have enjoyed the ride on this guilt trip and thereafter will choose the right decisions when it comes to intervening on somebody else's turf.  I have admiration for your wits and courage into thinking you would leave my kids fatherless or better yet steal what's rightfully & Lawfully mines.  

Peace be with you Sis!