When sharing aint Caring

Reading is one of the things I do by default and I must say that the # 1 benefit you get from reading is that you get a first row seat in a class called ‘Learning.’  Whether it is a signage,  poster board, ads, bulletin boards, books, articles, blogs, posts and comments of social media, be it be in a foreign language or not; the sole purpose of all these mediums is to ‘SHARE.’  Sharing information can go both ways: to give to those in need and willing to receive as well as imparting on information that will be used as chitterchatter. 

I have no fear of neither because most of my encouragements and life lessons come from sharing in the experiences of others. 
On a deeper level, have you ever given thought that history, science, politics, philosophy, literature, and sociology are all based on an account of shared information?  History is His Story, man’s account of what happened a moment in time in the past.  Science and philosophy is an account of great minds at work and so is literature and sociology.  The point is we all chime in to what others think, feel and have to say.  It is not that different on an individual or social level but the sole difference is that many will treat the former as being more reputable and intriguing whilst they treat coverage of one’s experience with disgust and jab.

“Why is it so?” I frequently asked myself.  I have come to realize that the people, who you feel closer to and have a lot in common with, will be the first to pass judgments while they maintain a fixed composure.  Almost as if they are so uninterested in what you have to say; when the reality is that what you share is like their ‘daily bread.’  Another way that I tend to look at this sticky situation is that people will be unresponsive and give off a sense of disinterest because of their own inhibitions and it makes them uncomfortable.  In other words, certain topics provoke a lot of hang-ups and embarrassment so it’s better to show discredit by not giving a feedback or any involvement because it might attract unwanted attention to them.
I firmly believe that when people choose to gossip about you, your life and your experiences, it can’t really hurt you unless you allow it.  Besides, having people talk about you only goes to show how important you are to them; they just don’t know it yet.

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