The Chic on the side

Dear the other woman,

A man isn't cheating with you because you are so good at being the other woman..uuhh..he's cheating with you because you aren't good enough to be the ONE. Some women brag about being the "go to" woman when the man gets bored at home and work relentlessly in competing with the wife. They will even try to put down a submissive woman for being who God designed her to be when the reality is that they need to learn what submission really means. A submissive woman:

1. She is far from weak
2. She knows how to carry the load for him and her both without him even having to know it.
3. She knows how to speak to his spirit & not his lusts.
4. She knows how to push him to his dreams instead of pulling him to destruction.
5. She knows how to pray with him and not play with him.
6. She knows how to be quiet even when her flesh wants to speak.
7. She knows the value of his hard work & not just his dollar.
8. A submissive woman is his "LIFETIME" but you are just a "GOOD TIME"...and that's all you will ever be.

He knows that he can throw a few dollars & material possessions your way & that's all you will ever expect. The other woman makes it easy for a man, the submissive woman makes it easy for herself by making him EARN & not buy her. You are the O.T.H.E.R. woman...an Overplayed Toy He Eventually Releases.......#Learnthefactshun

I saw this post and had to share it since it has so much truth, and substance.  Almost everyone can clearly relate whether on a one-sided or being on both side of the fence.  It is so clearly put and condensed so skillfully that its quality and value was in no way compromised.  I believe the idea here is to avoid being judgmental and mean regarding the facts.  However, being accepting of the roles that women intentionally and voluntarily play, allows one to examine their priorities and expectations of their significant other and relationships.  The ‘good’ girl can assess her true value and gather enough information to know her worth.  The chic on the side, well, she is awaken by a new revelation that can either allow her to invest more in her true value, or continues to be at the mercy of a man who merely sees her for what she’s worth.