GOOD GIRL GONE BAD

“Mi nah study Man & how fi hol one, Mi a pree how fi live without them.”

Good girls always get their hearts broken because they have sure mastered the art of being someone’s “doormat.” 
Being the good girl is not such a bad thing when you will be appreciated and respected but it is always likely that you are taken for granted which will only leave you hurt and scarred.  Then you finally realized that the only person you should be pleasing is yourself so you have to developed a game plan for damage control.  I do not advocate bitterness or rage but facing any forms of disappointment and emotional hurt can stir up feelings of anger beyond one’s control.  “Hell hath no fury like a woman’s scorned,” they say because when her heart is being trampled and all her kindness be taken for weakness be prepared for her costly demands.  .  

 After numerous years of living together, sharing personal space, your heart, hidden gifts and talents, your precious lil children, hopes and dreams, you realize that a man will never be satisfied.  You roll out on the floor like a doormat and all he does is just wipe his feet and walk on by without even looking down to take notice.  You can put the moves on him by balancing on the tip of your toes or even hang from the chandeliers only to know that your ass got lucky because even if you had missed your balance and popped ya neck, all you going to get is a neck brace, and well needed bed rest.  The Nanny who is also going to help with your kids might just be his new fling.  Some may say well man wicked eehh?  Well, I say and believe that women stupid eehh! 

Here are some questions to ponder and devise your own answer at will: Why are we chasing men when they should be the ones pursuing us?  Why are we acting like they are the perfect package when we are actually the prize?  Why are we slaving for a man when he should be the provider and protector?  Why are we fighting each other (females) for man’s attention when we should be empowering ourselves to earn their respect?  Why are we so bitter when a man show us who he really is when we should be grateful that he gave us a wake-up call?” Why are we so lost when he decides to pack his bags and leave when he actually made space for someone/something more viable in your life?

Bear in mind that we all have a destiny but many choose not to follow its path.  Through choices we can alter our fate and work hard for what we truly want.  There is no right or wrong answer in the quest for Love but one’s thing for certain the Good girls go bad because “Men Like Bitches” and “Marry em too.”